Civil Partnership

Tracy, Trained Celebrant – Kent and Beyond

Since 2019 both opposite sex and same sex couples in the UK have had the choice between a civil marriage ceremony or civil partnership.

A civil partnership gives your relationship legal recognition and rights and responsibilities which are very similar to those in marriage. In a civil partnership the registration involves signing a document in front of two witnesses after both making the declaration:

I, (name) declare that I know of no legal reason why I may not register as (Partner’s name)’s civil partner. I understand that on signing this document I will be forming a civil partnership with (Partner’s name).

Then traditionally, offering a ring

Followed by:

“Now that you have both signed as required by the law of this country and made a solemn and binding commitment in the presence of your witnesses, it gives me great pleasure to declare that you are now legally civil partners.”

Your ceremony will be an unforgettable celebration—tailored entirely to you. Tracy’s role is to tell your story in a way that feels just right for your special day, celebrating you in a way that is memorable, joyful, and most importantly, true to who you are.

Most couples who opt for a celebrant tend to go to their local registry office a couple of days before their registration, to do the legal paperwork, and then they're free to have their celebrant wedding celebration wherever they want.

I will work closely with you as a couple to fully adapt to whatever mood you want to create with your ceremony. It could be relaxed, traditional, quirky or a mixture of everything! I can guarantee that it will be a ceremony which captures your love, your life, your journey together so far, and your aspirations for the future.

One of the greatest advantages of a celebrant-led ceremony is that you’re not tied to tradition unless you want to be. You have complete control over how your ceremony looks and feels. You might choose to walk in together for a more inclusive feel, include children in your ceremony, or incorporate rituals from your cultural background. Your ceremony can be as traditional or as unconventional as you wish – it’s entirely your choice.

What Can You Expect When You Choose Me for Your Ceremony?

If you choose me as your celebrant, I’ll guide you through every step of the process to ensure your ceremony is everything you’ve imagined and more. We will begin with an initial meeting to make sure we’re a good fit. If you decide to book, I’ll send you some bespoke questionnaires that will help me get to know you both better, including your love story, your hopes for your wedding day, and what makes you as a couple unique. I’ll then craft a completely personalised ceremony that reflects your journey and the special bond you share.

In addition to the ceremony itself, I will liaise with your party, venue team, and any other suppliers to ensure everything runs smoothly on the day. I can also help with crafting vows, writing readings, and guiding any speeches or declarations you may want to include.

No Rules, No Restrictions

One of the best things about a celebrant-led ceremony is that there are no rules. You don’t have to get married in a licensed venue or a place of worship (although we can collaborate with those if you prefer). The wording of your vows will be unique to you, reflecting your values and love for one another.

A traditional civil marriage ceremony, on the other hand, must be strictly secular – no religious readings or spiritual elements allowed. If you’re someone who wants to include a hymn, prayer, or any other religious sentiment in your ceremony, a celebrant-led wedding is the perfect option for you.

You also don’t have to worry about restrictions regarding food or drink in the ceremony space – licensed venues often prohibit the sale and consumption of alcohol in the ceremony room. So, if you’d like to include a celebratory toast before or during your ceremony, I can help make that happen!

Your Day, Your Way

At the end of the day, this is your special day, and it should reflect who you are as a couple. We live in an era where we can celebrate our uniqueness, and no two weddings should be the same. Choosing a celebrant-led wedding allows you to create a ceremony that feels authentic to you and your partner, making it one-of-a-kind.

I understand that planning a wedding can be exciting but also a bit stressful. That’s why it’s so important to feel confident in the person conducting your ceremony. With me as your celebrant, you can rest assured that your ceremony will be exactly what you envisioned – personal, meaningful, and unforgettable.