About

Clasped Hands

Tracy, Trained Celebrant – Kent and Beyond

This is an inspiring time to get married in the UK, with an ever-growing range of unique venues available for your ceremony. Couples are choosing to make their vows in extraordinary locations—flying above the countryside in hot air balloons, on sandy beaches, in local woodlands, contemporary spaces such as galleries and warehouses, festival-style on farm fields, or even in their own or relatives’ homes and gardens.

Outdoor weddings are becoming increasingly popular. With the right contingency plan for inclement weather, exchanging vows in the open air can be truly magical. Celebrant-led ceremonies allow complete freedom, as your venue does not need to be licensed so you can think creatively and select a setting that truly matches your dreams.

Your ceremony is the heart of your wedding day and sets the tone for everything that follows. Together we can craft an unforgettable experience; an experience that reflects your story and one which will make lasting memories for you and your guests.

Same Sex Wedding Ceremonies

The recognition of same-sex marriage in many parts of the world has been a monumental step forward—legally, culturally, and personally. It’s opened the door for LGBTQ+ weddings to flourish, blending cherished traditions with new, personal touches that reflect each couple’s unique story..

As these celebrations have become more visible, they’ve brought fresh perspectives to mainstream wedding culture, encouraging new ideas of what a wedding can be. This shift represents not just greater acceptance but a growing appreciation for diversity and individuality.

Every adapted tradition and newly created ritual is a joyful reflection of the couple’s journey. It’s a chance to honour their love in a way that’s deeply personal, sending a powerful message: love is boundless and always worth celebrating.

How will we create the perfect ceremony?

I begin with a consultation and then once you have reviewed all of the details that we send you afterwards, a deposit secures your date and the writing of your personal script begins!

Together we will work through your ideas that you have put forward on the questionnaire and begin to create your ceremony. We will have our meetings in person or via zoom and family members can join in if you wish. If there are items you need to source for the ceremony we will decide how and when to do that together. You will never alone in your planning journey.

Venues

Every setting is unique, yet certain key elements are essential when planning your ceremony. I will work with you to ensure the ceremony space is positioned perfectly and that seating is arranged for maximum comfort and visibility—whether that’s in classic rows or something a little more creative! Together, we’ll make sure every guest feels connected to the moment.

My ceremonies are warm, engaging, and relaxed. I love to involve guests and respond naturally to those special, spontaneous moments that unfold. We can preserve all the cherished traditional elements of your ceremony while adding meaningful personal or symbolic touches to make it truly your own.

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Why Us

What Can You Expect When You Choose Me for Your Ceremony?

If you choose me as your celebrant, I’ll guide you through every step of the process to ensure your ceremony is everything you’ve imagined and more. We will begin with an initial meeting to make sure we’re a good fit. If you decide to book, I’ll send you some bespoke questionnaires that will help me get to know you both better, including your love story, your hopes for your wedding day, and what makes you as a couple unique. I’ll then craft a completely personalised ceremony that reflects your journey and the special bond you share. In addition to the ceremony itself, I will liaise with your bridal party, venue team, and any other suppliers to ensure everything runs smoothly on the day. I can also help with crafting vows, writing readings, and guiding any speeches or declarations you may want to include.

No Rules, No Restrictions

One of the best things about a celebrant-led ceremony is that there are no rules. You don’t have to get married in a licensed venue or a place of worship (although we can collaborate with those if you prefer). The wording of your vows will be unique to you, reflecting your values and love for one another. A traditional civil marriage ceremony, on the other hand, must be strictly secular – no religious readings or spiritual elements allowed. If you’re someone who wants to include a hymn, prayer, or any other religious sentiment in your ceremony, a celebrant-led wedding is the perfect option for you. You also don’t have to worry about restrictions regarding food or drink in the ceremony space – licensed venues often prohibit the sale and consumption of alcohol in the ceremony room. So, if you’d like to include a celebratory toast before or during your ceremony, I can help make that happen!

Your Wedding Day, Your Way At the end of the day, this is your special day, and it should reflect who you are as a couple. We live in an era where we can celebrate our uniqueness, and no two weddings should be the same. Choosing a celebrant-led wedding allows you to create a ceremony that feels authentic to you and your partner, making it one-of-a-kind. I understand that planning a wedding can be exciting but also a bit stressful. That’s why it’s so important to feel confident in the person conducting your ceremony. With me as your celebrant, you can rest assured that your ceremony will be exactly what you envisioned – personal, meaningful, and unforgettable. If you’d like to discuss the possibility of having a celebrant-led wedding or vow renewal, please don’t hesitate to get in touch for a no-obligation call or meeting. I’d be honored to help you create the perfect ceremony to celebrate your love.